The Multicultural Couch

I was obsessing about finding some sort of pull-out bed for my new livingroom because I wanted my place to be THE pit stop (and hopefully destination) for friends and family when they’re in Vancouver.

I obsess about things. Pros? I take the time to get the good stuff. Cons? A guilt complex and a lighter wallet.

So, I found a hide-a-bed that was free. I called the guy:

“What’s the condition?”

“Oh, excellent. We’re Italians so you know right there that it’s in fantastic condition…”

I did not know this, and whether it was a fact of life or a big fat stereotype.

“Uh, okay. Why are you getting rid of it?”

“It was my sister’s. She died a month ago and her husband just recently died. But, don’t worry, they didn’t die on the couch.”

My brain would have never come to that thought, but I’m really glad he told me just in case I went to sit down with Julia, cuddle up and watch a movie on the thing and all of a sudden formed that notion. Paranoia would sent in, consisting of my try to inhale strong enough to smell any odours that I hadn’t noticed, and trying not to inhale too loud so I didn’t get her attention.

Her: “What are you doing?”

Me: “Oh, I wasn’t sure if the previous owner died on the couch, so I’m sniffing for decomposition.”

But, hey, free retro hide-a-bed! And this is where the couch gets multicultural…

-> I get it free from an Italian.

->Delivered by an East Indian.

->Received by me, a white boy.

->Assisted in a beautifully choreographed zig-zag into my livingroom by my Chinese landlords.

I understand this city now. I get it. We all feel like minorities, but when we combine forces no majority can stand in our way. (or couch). So if my logic is correct, then Vancouver is like Voltron, with language barriers. Vancouver Voltron may take twice as long to save the day, but we’d save it at some point, damnit.

New Moves

Vacation over.

It was nice to give myself time away from the internet, but I cheated. (Damn you, Facebook.) Time away from typing creates lots of thinking to put down in words.

I’m back.

What the hell did I do with my June and early July? The most I could possibly think of doing: I graduated university (I must be sure to pat myself on the back – I’m not good at that), deemed Victoria empty of opportunities in my writing field and moved to Vancouver.

Yep, this has been a busy time.

My next few posts will bring you (and my subconscious) up to speed with all the details, thoughts, worries, excitement and shock that has been the last few weeks. This blog followed me through bipolar, then cancer, my Editor-in-Chief duties with This Side of West, and now it will chronicle the adventures of an island boy in the big city, just trying to carve out his place in it.

In other words: life just keeps happening to me and I just keep trying to hold on to it.

I LML (Love My Life – © Julia), I really do. As I write this, I worry about where I’m going. It’s the primitive dark cave fear, but with bills stacking up. I have trouble juggling too many projects. I don’t want to prioritize. I want it all to happen like this *SNAP*.

I can only face this challenge one way. I have to get fired up, dust myself off and find that gold again, light that cave with the shine I give off when I’m enthusiastic and excited. I am thrilled to be here in the big city. It’s gorgeous and couldn’t have asked for it better. I’m stoked to have successes.

A friend gave me the best advice ever, and you can apply it to everything: DON’T FUCK UP.

I won’t screw this up. I’m just going to let it all go and let the city and people I meet, along with my passion, sweep me in the right direction.

I’m kiting. Both grounded and floating above it all.

(I was going to make a funny Facebook-related comment here – but, that would be FUCKING IT UP.)